Do you realize how difficult it is to change OUR own thoughts, OUR fixed mindsets, OUR reactions and OUR behaviour?
If this is so difficult, then ever wonder, how we go all out and create such a hue n cry about the other person/people not changing their attitudes easily?
A person’s nature is never born out of a day…it’s not also been there since the day he was born , BUT, his nature has been a part of him since the day he was conceived ( though , some say, it’s been a part of him that he’s carried with himself through past lifetimes!!!??!!!)
It’s not the other one you can change , but it’s for you to change yourself foremost!!! Our attitude, our thoughts, our behaviour n our reactions, the way we perceive the situations n act , determine so much the outcome of any situation. How the other person reacts to it is not in our control , but yes, how impersonally we consider the whole ‘drama’ n the situation is totally up to us!!!
A balanced mind and a non-judgemental attitude is hard to keep at all times and for all such situations, BACH FLOWER REMEDIES are the ones to lean back on !!!
BFRs help us to maintain our calm n composure n to think straight whenever there’s a ‘DIFFICULT SITUATION’ or a ‘DIFFICULT PERSON’ to handle.
These BFRs are like ‘FRIENDS IN A BOTTLE’ that bring us back to feeling SAFE n HAPPY, getting us back to feeling CALM n COMPOSED, and thereby we handle the whole situation in a stable manner.
The bottom line here is that CHANGE YOURSELF FOR THE BETTER n THE WORLD AROUND YOU STARTS TO CHANGE ITSELF n thus PEACE n HAPPINESS SHALL ALWAYS PREVAIL!!!
Love n light
Reema Vohra
